Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Celebrate Life

I have to say that my mom, however wacky and zany and super-fun she is, is also absolutely amazing. At the beginning of this summer, her husband passed away...3 days before they were leaving on vacation ( the Alanis Morissette song "Ironic" plays in my head). She waded through it all like a champ! Pearl Harbor Day was his birthday. I told her I was really sorry. She said it was a good day. She thought to herself, either I can hang out and mope, or I can celebrate. She had all of the kids and grand kids in the area over for dinner. They fixed his favorite foods, played cards and put a wreath on his grave. Go Mom!
Sometimes the daily routine can turn into drudgery when my perspective deflates. My goal for the coming year is to celebrate more.
It also makes me very thankful for wonderful family. What a fantastic comfort they can be.

1 comment:

David and Esther said...

Ditto there Girl! Remind me to do the same.

Mad Hatter Cake, Mad Skills!!!

Mad Hatter Cake, Mad Skills!!!
Happy Birthday from Pollyanna

Happy Schmappy Birthday to me!

So, I know this is late, not that anyone is surprised...but I wanted to say thanks to the girls for the fun birthday lunch. ( I wrote proper Thank You notes and delivered about half of them so far..duh.) And then to make it even sweeter, Pollyanna (who has entirely admirable talents) made me a fantastic fondant mad hatter birthday cake! She made the fondant out of marshmallow so it tasted as wonderful as it looked! I took pictures of the art.

Jess and Wes on the first day of Kindergarten

Jess and Wes on the first day of Kindergarten
Jess woke up on this particular morning in rare form. She usually doesn't care what she's wearing; her birthday suit is just as good as anything else. On this day inparticular, she informed me that she didn't want any bows or bands and that she had her clothes picked out. Was that Kindergarten or 8th grade?